Guildies recommended me to reconnect.
That I had to be singled out to suffer one stupid bug.
Unique staff Lv53 +8 GONE. by simply changing weapon
Unique rod Lv60 +8 GONE. by simple trying to move it to my bag by 2x clicking it
Tried to wear that Lv 40 2hand sword that was rotting on my inventory. oh for sure i was able to wear it alright. then i 2x click it to unquip it. boom 2hand mediocre sword.
Guildies recommended me to reconnect. and i did so. reconnected. weapon still gone and missing.
I go to the weapon NPC to buy weapons to redo the events. and my surprise. my gold keeps disapearing but none of teh mediocre weapons going to my bag.